Alien, Please
06-07-2014, 08:46 PM,
Post: #1
Alien, Please
Alien,

For some reason you really get under my skin. You get under my skin far more than anyone I have ever met anywhere, digital or in real life.

Telling you to go suck a cock, no it was not appropriate. I bet you enjoyed triggering me to that point, because you continually do it.

Please though stop. Please just stop. I don't know what you are trying to prove. That you are smarter than me? More successful than me? Better educated than me? Faster with than me? Better liked than me?

I concede all those point, I freely concede them, so you don't need to prove them.

If you are doing it just for personal pleasure, please get your pleasure someplace else.

I'm not just a bunch of bits running across your screen. I'm a real person, with real emotions and feeling, and your continual taunting, jeering, prodding, and teasing is really getting to me. So please stop.

Part of me wonders if you are a sociopath. Not all sociopaths are criminal, in fact many aren't. They do tend to be highly intelligent, often have learned to blend into society very well and are quite charming, but they have no shame for any of their actions or empathy towards the feelings of others, and they are very competitive and like to dominant others. You do at least to me seem to fit that profile very closely.

If that is you, then this plea will fall on deaf ears because you are simply incapable of giving a shit, but if that is not you, then I beg you - enough is enough. I hope that isn't you, because I hope you will hear this plea.

Please stop taunting me. I hope you are the kind of man that will stop teasing and taunting someone when they ask. So I'm asking, please just stop.

I am well aware I have a lot of oddities and quirks. About two or three times I have really bad seizures and have hit my head numerous times. Some days I am fine, some days I can't even remember my own phone number. And even before the head injuries, I never had very good social skills. How to be sociable is something that comes naturally to many people but it is something I just don't grasp. I know I focus on specific things instead of seeing the bigger picture. Some people have trouble seeing the trees through the forest. I'm more likely to still be focusing on the centipede I saw crawling in the pine needles 3 miles earlier on the trail to even notice the trees. It's the way I am, but is that justification for constant ridicule and poking? Just because I focus on smaller details and often don't see the big picture? If I could will myself to change that I would but I've tried and I can't. Maybe there are meds that can help, but with a pre-existing condition its not like I can just go see a doctor and try different meds until I find one that works. I don't have that luxury.

I'm not expecting your sympathy for the way I am, I do hope though that maybe you'll understand and honor my request to just stop. Please. It's been enough already, sometimes it gets to me so much I clench my teeth and feel my blood pressure going up, so please, just stop.

I'm sure all those factors make me a great big loser in your eyes. And maybe I am a great big loser. But I am still a human being. A highly flawed one perhaps but still human.

Maybe it amuses you that you have that kind of power over me. But doesn't it get boring now that you've demonstrated it? Or do you live a fucked up pathetic life where I am the only kind of amusement your pathetic existance can get?

Did your daddy beat you as a child? Or maybe your little sister beat you? If that's the reason you have to find someone weaker than you to pick on, please see a therapist. I know you can afford it. Not all of us who need therapists can afford them, but you can.

There's a lot of flaws I need to work on. I need to stop reacting the way I do, but you can also stop the constant taunting.

So please stop.

Things like telling you to go suck a dick, yes, that is the kind of thing I need to stop. I am not going to detract from that.

I was temp banned for that, abuse of a member, and rightfully so. But is not constantly harassing me with your emoticons and jabs when I have specifically been avoiding you not also abuse of a forum member?

That's up to the mods who run this place, but anyone who is intellectually honest knows that it is. You're just clever enough not to use a sexual reference in how you do it. Congratulations, you clearly out-smarted me. You won. Now please just stop.

I've been trying not to post a lot here recently, people don't like me here, I get that, so I was pretty much staying away - but then I had a question about a popular CMS I knew people here were familiar with, and I was having trouble finding the best solution in the WordPress codex because I'm not familiar with their terminology and yes, when I read their documentation, I get hung up on how crappy their backend is.

So I asked, and Gippy pointed me in the right direction and I am very grateful for that and I have it working beautifully now - but yes, I got sidetracked and it seemed like several people here saw it was me posting and saw it as an opportunity to have fun at my expense, including you, Alien.

Your post had nothing to do with anythig - either the original question I had or the sidetrack about WordPress's bloated internals. Instead you are suggesting that no one should help me unless I pay them? In a forum specifically for tech talk?

I tried to give you the hint that I really didn't want your input, and you then had to continue to antagonize me later by again posting nothing of substance on anything but just harassing me with stuff I had already addressed from other people?

Please, please just stop that.

-=-
Something for the mods to think about - what Alien is doing to me despite that i have stayed away from him and my requests for him to stay away from me is almost certainly causing more angst and emotional trauma to me than my burst of anger caused him, which essentially no different than flipping him the bird, no?
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06-07-2014, 08:51 PM,
Post: #2
RE: Alien, Please
can you please stop instead?
bedstuy Wrote:mocking a pair of $500 jeans is a form of class warfare... why do you hate my social status?
06-07-2014, 09:53 PM,
Post: #3
RE: Alien, Please
TL;DR
"The 300ZX Turbo is a dance; it's a song; it's rolling, roaring automotive art. There is no color that doesn't suit it. There is no mood-lifting chemical substance it can't replace." - Automobile Magazine
06-07-2014, 10:45 PM,
Post: #4
RE: Alien, Please
Now that I have read your "sorry, not sorry" little spiel about how Joost is such a child-abused sociopath, I'm tempted to extend your little vacation. Don't you dare abuse members with actual value.
"The 300ZX Turbo is a dance; it's a song; it's rolling, roaring automotive art. There is no color that doesn't suit it. There is no mood-lifting chemical substance it can't replace." - Automobile Magazine
06-07-2014, 10:58 PM,
Post: #5
RE: Alien, Please
I did not say he was a child-abused sociopath.

However, mis-representing others and twisting what they say is one of the characteristics of a sociopath.
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06-07-2014, 11:04 PM, (This post was last modified: 06-07-2014, 11:06 PM by Jehannum.)
Post: #6
RE: Alien, Please
(06-07-2014, 10:58 PM)FunkyRes Wrote: I did not say he was a child-abused sociopath.

However, mis-representing others and twisting what they say is one of the characteristics of a sociopath.

Don't try and weasel your way out of what you wrote. After all, I have it on good authority that misrepresenting and twisting words are both apparently characteristics of a sociopath.
"The 300ZX Turbo is a dance; it's a song; it's rolling, roaring automotive art. There is no color that doesn't suit it. There is no mood-lifting chemical substance it can't replace." - Automobile Magazine
06-08-2014, 02:02 AM,
Post: #7
RE: Alien, Please
I see what you did there
bedstuy Wrote:mocking a pair of $500 jeans is a form of class warfare... why do you hate my social status?
06-08-2014, 11:35 AM,
Post: #8
RE: Alien, Please
(06-08-2014, 02:02 AM)roo Wrote: I see what you did there

I saw what he did too. By suggesting I might be a psychopath, he acknowledged my very high level of intelligence.

I'm quite flattered, really.
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06-08-2014, 12:39 PM,
Post: #9
RE: Alien, Please
(06-08-2014, 11:35 AM)FunkyRes Wrote:
(06-08-2014, 02:02 AM)roo Wrote: I see what you did there

I saw what he did too. By suggesting I might be a psychopath, he acknowledged my very high level of intelligence.

I'm quite flattered, really.
I thought roo was referring to your title and the implied insult, but whatever.
My logic is infallible. Resistance is futile.
06-08-2014, 01:29 PM,
Post: #10
RE: Alien, Please
Yeah, my title is weird, I don't know who set it but I don't see what midget porn peddling has to do with anything.
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06-08-2014, 02:05 PM,
Post: #11
RE: Alien, Please
You know for a fact that wasn't the title I was referring to.
My logic is infallible. Resistance is futile.
06-08-2014, 09:13 PM,
Post: #12
RE: Alien, Please
I was told once that the mentally disabled don't know that they're mentally disabled. To them, everything they experience is normal. I have spent a good deal of time thinking about that. If they think all is normal, then it's quite possible that I'm mentally disabled and am unaware of it. How would I know? I've decided that my interactions with society provide sufficient evidence to declare that I'm not disabled, and I've grown comfortable with the conclusion that even the mentally disabled are aware that they are different from most others.

However, there are times, when I encounter certain characteristics in others, that I question my conclusion.
bedstuy Wrote:mocking a pair of $500 jeans is a form of class warfare... why do you hate my social status?
06-08-2014, 10:53 PM,
Post: #13
RE: Alien, Please
(06-08-2014, 09:13 PM)roo Wrote: I was told once that the mentally disabled don't know that they're mentally disabled. To them, everything they experience is normal. I have spent a good deal of time thinking about that. If they think all is normal, then it's quite possible that I'm mentally disabled and am unaware of it. How would I know? I've decided that my interactions with society provide sufficient evidence to declare that I'm not disabled, and I've grown comfortable with the conclusion that even the mentally disabled are aware that they are different from most others.

However, there are times, when I encounter certain characteristics in others, that I question my conclusion.

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"The 300ZX Turbo is a dance; it's a song; it's rolling, roaring automotive art. There is no color that doesn't suit it. There is no mood-lifting chemical substance it can't replace." - Automobile Magazine
06-08-2014, 11:47 PM,
Post: #14
RE: Alien, Please
(06-08-2014, 09:13 PM)roo Wrote: I was told once that the mentally disabled don't know that they're mentally disabled. To them, everything they experience is normal. I have spent a good deal of time thinking about that. If they think all is normal, then it's quite possible that I'm mentally disabled and am unaware of it. How would I know? I've decided that my interactions with society provide sufficient evidence to declare that I'm not disabled, and I've grown comfortable with the conclusion that even the mentally disabled are aware that they are different from most others.

However, there are times, when I encounter certain characteristics in others, that I question my conclusion.

Do you remember that assembly at school where you always had to step outside for a minute? That's where the principal told the rest of the kids to play along.
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06-09-2014, 03:52 AM,
Post: #15
RE: Alien, Please
(06-08-2014, 09:13 PM)roo Wrote: I was told once that the mentally disabled don't know that they're mentally disabled. To them, everything they experience is normal. I have spent a good deal of time thinking about that. If they think all is normal, then it's quite possible that I'm mentally disabled and am unaware of it. How would I know? I've decided that my interactions with society provide sufficient evidence to declare that I'm not disabled, and I've grown comfortable with the conclusion that even the mentally disabled are aware that they are different from most others.

However, there are times, when I encounter certain characteristics in others, that I question my conclusion.

My understanding is that the fact that you can think this is a good sign. I'm pretty sure that people with mental disabilities wouldn't do a lot of introspection; mostly just being able to focus on external activities as they happen instead of thinking about what they've experienced or done long after the fact.
My logic is infallible. Resistance is futile.
06-10-2014, 02:59 AM,
Post: #16
RE: Alien, Please
This thread is depressing. [Image: NBCYSSh.jpg]
06-11-2014, 12:36 AM, (This post was last modified: 06-11-2014, 05:35 PM by Alien.)
Post: #17
RE: Alien, Please
I've given your plea some careful consideration. Really, I have. I pondered it all through this bank holiday weekend. And as I pondered, I watched you fling your passive-aggressiveness at everyone and everything like a bloody hippo fanning his tail. So I came to a conclusion. You know what, Res? Actions have consequences. So fuck you very much. You deserve whatever the internet heaps upon you. You may think that you're being picked on for no reason at all, but everyone else knows that this is not the case. You deserve it, every last bit of it.
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06-11-2014, 10:35 AM,
Post: #18
RE: Alien, Please
Which holiday is that?
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06-11-2014, 11:36 AM,
Post: #19
RE: Alien, Please
(06-11-2014, 12:36 AM)Alien Wrote: I've given your plea some careful consideration. Really, I have. I pondered it all through this bank holiday weekend. and as I pondered, I watched you fling your passive-aggressiveness at everyone and everything like a bloody hippo. So I came to a conclusion. You know what, Res? Actions have consequences. So fuck you very much. You deserve whatever the internet heaps upon you. You may think that you're being picked on for no reason at all, but everyone else knows that this is not the case. You deserve it, every last bit of it.

:slow clap:

Salute
"The 300ZX Turbo is a dance; it's a song; it's rolling, roaring automotive art. There is no color that doesn't suit it. There is no mood-lifting chemical substance it can't replace." - Automobile Magazine
06-16-2014, 09:30 AM,
Post: #20
RE: Alien, Please
QUIT PICKING ON SOCIOPATHS YOU FUCKING ASSHOLE
06-16-2014, 03:55 PM,
Post: #21
RE: Alien, Please
He's here to take the heat off of people who cannot take it quite as well as he. I am obliged.
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